5 AWESOME THINGS TO SAY TO SOMEONE TODAY

5 AWESOME THINGS TO SAY TO SOMEONE TODAY

1.Take your time, its ok 

This is nice to say to someone who is learning a new job, eg the cashier at the grocery store, the restaurant waiter or the person trying to help you at the take away place. We all had to learn something new at some stage of out lives and we all remember what it was like to get nervous and feel like you cant do the job because of the sudden pressure staring at you. Be patient. Increase their confidence, don't decrease it.

2. 3 people were actually saying how good you are looking these days, I just thought I would tell you.

We always find it necessary to repeat the gossip, the nasty things, the things we may not even know are 100 percent true, yet we will focus on that. What ever happened to repeating things to serve a purpose or to do well. when was the last time you actually phoned someone to repeat something positive that was said about him or her? why not do it today.

3. I'm proud of your work, here is a little something for you.

Reward and recognise hard work when you see it. Be it in the work place or at home with the children. Too often people are called into offices or by parents to hear about what they have done wrong, what about rewarding them for the difference they have made and the hard work they have put in as of late or the excellent quality of work they have been producing.?

Don't assume that just because a worker or student is always an achiever that he /she doesn't need to hear "well done"every now and then, and if someone is battling with their work, recognise the smallest improvement and see how quickly they will continue to improve.

4. You  look really smart today.

Have you ever walked passed a total stranger and complimented them? How often have you seen an old man or lady whom have gone to the effort of dressing so smartly or beautifully for their day just to go down to the shops? wouldn't it be wonderful if you just stopped the gentleman and said "I just wanted to tell you how smart you look this morning, have a lovely day", smile and walk off.

Those words may be simple to you, but perhaps the person you have said it to is lonely , has no family or friends near by and craves warmth, by just telling him how smart he looks and acknowledging him, you have made his day. Why must society always see it as "a come on line" if a gentleman genuinely says, "Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you that you look beautiful today"

Break the mould attached to the same old tiring phobia's that society create and compliment a stranger whom you can see has made an effort to look smart today.

Wouldn't it make YOU smile?

5.You have a good heart

Have you ever watched someone as they have done a kind gesture, or encouraged a person who's confidence is broken, or heard them say the most beautiful / kindest of things to someone who is going through troubled times. Have you ever seen someone give up something they love to help someone more unfortunate than they are , I have seen it so many times, and when I have actually gone up to the person and complimented them on their good heart, firstly they were non the wiser I was watching and initially feel shy, but suddenly you can see a little smile as they realise , "hey , actually what I did do there WAS VERY NICE" secondly, you'll find that person will do alot more kind compassionate things thereafter because it felt good to them that not only did they help someone but someone else reminded them about what a good heart they have.

SO HOW MANY AWESOME THINGS ARE YOU GOING TO SAY TO SOMEONE TODAY? THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF IT ALL, IS MAKE SURE WHEN YOU DO SAY THOSE WORDS, YOU MEAN EVERY SINGLE LETTER THAT LEAVES YOUR LIPS.

SEIZE the Day Special friend,

Let only beautiful words leave your lips, be the first to smile and always be the first to say hello!!

NEW ADVENTURES AND PROMISES AWAIT US TODAY!!

Love

Nadia