Monday 20 August 2012

Coping with the pain of losing children...one small step at a time!!

What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. - Helen Keller

I will never forget being told when I lost my son that the pain I would feel on that day would be the same pain I would feel forever BUT i would just learn to live with it.........they were so right. As time goes on my friends you realize the absolute raw pain YOU are feeling is exactly that , JUST YOUR PAIN, because our children are safe, are happy, are protected and are always with us . they are in a place where there is no risk of hurt or pain, they are in a place of tranquility and peace, and threfore I ask you to TRY FIND PEACE in your heart knowing they are safe in Gods hands, and this tine apart is but a short time compared to the eternity we will share with them........hand in hand.  No one can take away your memories, they are deeply engraved in your heart.
Be brave,
You have an eternity to spend together.
wipe away your tears, get up now and go find something to do to take your mind off everything for a while, there is plenty to do on this blog!!!!! (grin!!) you have done well today.
Dont worry about tomorrow, we will face that when it comes.................

Here is a fun link to take your mind off things for a while
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&frm=1&source=web&cd=2&cad=rja&ved=0CFwQFjAB&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwatchseries.eu%2Fserie%2Ffriends&ei=lpgyULG0CcPQhAfog4CQAQ&usg=AFQjCNFm3ylWXNYyyWuAlXWAKZWXPLLkZg&sig2=AnDrHGfmOZAaNxlE6XOsDQ

Keeping you close to my thoughts and heart
love Nadia

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